Good conversations

[Doc]

Any ideas on having good conversations with women. Let’s say one on one, alone with her. My mind goes blank pretty quick.

BTW first non-Pacman post ever! Yeah Baby

[Andrew]

This is kind of a broad question that can depend on the situation. One general good piece of advice is remember that everyones' favorite subject is THEMSELVES... meaning ask them open ended questions that allow them to talk about themselves.

This question kind of opens up another topic and that is WHERE and WHAT KIND of women are you meeting? It is easier to have natural conversation with people who share COMMON INTEREST. You and I would have no trouble having a natural conversation because we share so many similar interest. Therefore it would be much easier to have a conversation with a woman who is a BELIEVER or SEEKER of some kind. You could discuss books you've been reading that she might have read (i.e. Purpose Driven Life).

With that said... you can't generalize people too much. You have to relax, and not oggle women like pieces of meat that way she doesn't get the vibe of, "Predator" from you which will make her comfortable. From there you are free to talk naturally without having to worry too much about what it is you talk about. You could ask her about what she does (Always remember to teasing at some point about SOMETHING can be fun... although it doesn't have to be focused on her). Depending on your goal with this particular woman... (Which you need to be aware of) you could lead that into asking her to do something.