Post by Andrew on Jun 23, 2010 5:50:18 GMT -5
Humility is one of the most attractive traits I find in people. Proverbs 23:17-18 says, "Don't envy sinners, but always continue to fear the Lord. For surely you have a future ahead of you; your hope will not be disappointed." (Just to note... if you want to know about women, people, and relationships... READ PROVERBS front to back, several times)
Too often I've found in the community, "Newbies" or guys that don't have understanding think that in order to be attractive to women they need to be like the male jackasses on shows like the Hills, that Jock reality tv show where all the guys had hot girlfriends they cheated on, etc etc...
One... just because these women are physically attractive doesn't mean you want to be with them! TRUST ME! Proverbs 31:30 says Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.
Also, Proverbs 5:3-9 says, "The Lips of an immoral woman are as sweet as honey, and her mouth is smoother than oil. But the result is as bitter as poison, sharp as a double-edged sword. Her feet go down to death. Her steps lead straight to the grave. For she does not care about the path to life. She staggers down a crooked trail and doesn't even realize where it leads. So my sons, listen to me. Never stray from what I am about to say: Run from her! Don't go near the door of her house! If you do, you will loose your honor and hand over to merciless people everything you have achieved in life."
Thats deep! You can watch the catty women on shows like the Hills and realize how messed up they are... and how much they DON'T enjoy life... and how much drama they would be, and how bad it would suck!
So anyway... I say this to revert back to Humility. Just because you see an arrogant dude with a hot chick doesn't mean thats something you should want... or ENVY! Its not! Those people ARE NOT HAPPY NOR AT PEACE! Humility is the way!
A good woman will be attracted to humility (With a little bit of cocky and funny edge
). Don't become a jack ass in your process to becoming a better man. A guy who is arrogant and a frat wanna be boy. (i.e. Real Social Dynamics... I can't imagine those guys being good AT ALL!) You don't need to be that way to attract hot women. You'll actually still attract some of the ones I mentioned from these verses in Proverbs, but you don't want them. You'll also attract the one mentioned in Proverbs 31! Thats the one you want. It will also improve your friendships because nobody likes a jackass... not really. They just use him for his fame at times if he has it... like its mentioned in Proverbs 5 that I mentioned.
Too often I've found in the community, "Newbies" or guys that don't have understanding think that in order to be attractive to women they need to be like the male jackasses on shows like the Hills, that Jock reality tv show where all the guys had hot girlfriends they cheated on, etc etc...
One... just because these women are physically attractive doesn't mean you want to be with them! TRUST ME! Proverbs 31:30 says Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.
Also, Proverbs 5:3-9 says, "The Lips of an immoral woman are as sweet as honey, and her mouth is smoother than oil. But the result is as bitter as poison, sharp as a double-edged sword. Her feet go down to death. Her steps lead straight to the grave. For she does not care about the path to life. She staggers down a crooked trail and doesn't even realize where it leads. So my sons, listen to me. Never stray from what I am about to say: Run from her! Don't go near the door of her house! If you do, you will loose your honor and hand over to merciless people everything you have achieved in life."
Thats deep! You can watch the catty women on shows like the Hills and realize how messed up they are... and how much they DON'T enjoy life... and how much drama they would be, and how bad it would suck!
So anyway... I say this to revert back to Humility. Just because you see an arrogant dude with a hot chick doesn't mean thats something you should want... or ENVY! Its not! Those people ARE NOT HAPPY NOR AT PEACE! Humility is the way!
A good woman will be attracted to humility (With a little bit of cocky and funny edge
). Don't become a jack ass in your process to becoming a better man. A guy who is arrogant and a frat wanna be boy. (i.e. Real Social Dynamics... I can't imagine those guys being good AT ALL!) You don't need to be that way to attract hot women. You'll actually still attract some of the ones I mentioned from these verses in Proverbs, but you don't want them. You'll also attract the one mentioned in Proverbs 31! Thats the one you want. It will also improve your friendships because nobody likes a jackass... not really. They just use him for his fame at times if he has it... like its mentioned in Proverbs 5 that I mentioned.